Jun.19.2009
12:06 am
by Randi
Sad Endings Can = New Beginnings…
We may not initiate changes in our lives, but you have to admit, it often times pushes us to get to places we wouldn’t go if we didn’t have to….it’s not a bad thing. It’s change & I dislike it in the beginning, as much as anyone…
From Daily Om: Sometimes a Loss Can Be a Gain When we lose anything that we cherish, the sense of emptiness we are left behind with can be overwhelming. A space that was filled, whether in our lives or our hearts, is now a void, and the feelings of pain, loss, and separation can sometimes be difficult to bear. While it is always important to honor what weve lost, sometimes a loss can also represent a chance for a new beginning. When we are ready, the void left by a relationship, a job, or a dream can then be viewed as open space that can be filled with something new: new experiences, new knowledge, new job opportunities, new dreams, new people, and new ways to grow.
There are many ways to weave the threads of loss into a blessing. If youve lost a job or ended a relationship, your first thoughts may revolve around filling the void with a similar job or the same kind of relationship. Try not to rush into anything just to fill up the emptiness. The loss of a job can free you up to explore new opportunities, especially if youve outgrown the old one. Likewise, the loss of a relationship can give you a chance to rediscover your own interests, explore new passions, and meet different people.
If seeking the good in what seems like a bad situation makes you feel uncomfortable, then try to remember that you are not devaluing what youve lost or replacing it cold-heartedly. You are surrendering to the fact that, in life, we sometimes have to let go and allow for what is new to enter into the open spaces created by our losses. In doing so, you are honoring what has left you and welcoming the new into your life with open space, an open mind, and an open heart.
The feelings that are revved up inside of us during change, lets us know we’re alive & reminds us that we can choose a new direction to go in. There are no mistakes, everything happens exactly as it’s supposed to…It’s a new beginning, let’s take it as that & move forward!
Randi B.
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